On 'The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives,' Holy High-Low Outfits

#MomTok's stars spend eight episodes scheming, partying, and praying in a mix viewers might recognize from their own closets.

the cast of secret lives of mormon wives at Taylor Frankie Paige's baby shower
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I started watching Hulu's The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives for the drama. Pregnancies! Arrests! Backstabbing, confirmed via an anonymous "Truth Box"! The producers really got me with the "Unholy" needle drop in the trailer, and I was strapped into the #MomTok rollercoaster without having seen a single one of their videos on my own "For You" page prior. I'm an anomaly; the cast of moms-turned-influencers has a combined ten million followers on TikTok.

By the time the credits rolled over the final episode, I wasn't just wondering if MomTok would survive the fallout from the show's various scandals. I was also fixated on their style—the loud-luxury-meets-accessible fashion pieces the cast wore through every baby shower, girls' trip, and confessional post-mortem.

the cast of secret lives of mormon wives at Taylor's baby shower wearing designer bags

At Taylor Frankie Paul's baby shower, MomTok wore their best Goyard (Jennifer) and Chanel (Jessi) along with dresses from Revolve and Zara.

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Mormon Wives is not necessarily trying to be a fashion show; it's about the tension between a group of women's religious backgrounds and the more progressive lives they're trying to lead. (And also, it's about good ol' fashion friend group infighting, as a battle to lead MomTok plays out.) Still, the eight episodes are a veritable feast of influencer-special outfits, with a level of contrast that makes "high-low" sound like an understatement.

Teary-eyed admissions in the confession booth come with puff-sleeve dresses via Revolve and gold earrings from Tiffany (or very close lookalikes). At a pivotal reveal during a baby shower, the moms' huddle is dwarfed by Jennifer's blue Goyard tote and Jessi's fluffy white Chanel flap. Drives to Swig, the soda chain that's to Provo, Utah, what Starbucks is to most major American cities, come accessorized with Free People jackets—and Dior saddle bags.

The bags and the jewelry are the most readily recognizable pieces from these major luxury brands; runway deep cuts, you will not find. And while everyone has an obvious affinity for pairing Zara, Amazon, and H&M with loud logo bags, a few of the wives have even more definable takes on what Reddit calls the "Utah uniform."

Taylor Frankie Paul, the self-proclaimed "founder" of MomTok who's pregnant with her third child during the series, wears an array of thin, clingy, off-the-shoulder sweater dresses in cotton candy shades—Hailey Bieber maternity wear with a few less zeros hanging on the price tag. Layla, the youngest cast member at 23 who's also recently divorced, favors short mini skirts and an often-worn, shearling-lined Zara jacket. The series' eventual villain, Whitney, has a thing for both cozy lounge sets and Christian Dior, which shows up in the form of a toile book tote and gold logo earrings. (She memorably wears the latter with an ASOS graphic T-shirt declaring "DRAGON FRUIT" in bright capital letters. Okay!)

Jennifer Affleck and Mayci from Secret Lives of Mormon Wives in the confessional booths wearing designer jewelry

Jennifer Affleck (left) and Mayci Neely (right) wear what look like pieces from Dior and Tiffany & Co.

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Whitney from Secret Lives of Mormon Wives wears a dragon fruit t shirt

There are also some ASOS finds—like Whitney's "Dragon Fruit" graphic T-shirt.

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Despite the size of the cast, each woman's style reads like the same closet in a slightly different font. Skirting the strict rules of their religion where modesty is concerned, they do it in the same ways: crop tops, sheer netted dresses, micro-mini skirts, and tight athleisure sets. It's not just #MomTok's fashion that's consistent: Almost the entire cast has their hair styled into waterfall waves by Jessi, who owns a salon in Provo. (For inquiring minds: Yes, the tutorial is already on TikTok.)

Jennifer Affleck from Secret Lives of Mormon Wives wears a pair of Bottega Veneta earrings

Jennifer Affleck's jewelry collection also appears to include Bottega Veneta's viral drop earrings.

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While I couldn't always follow Whitney's mental gymnastics routines, I could easily follow why loud luxury turns up alongside so many everyday outfits. Many of the #MomTok women are also the breadwinners in their marriages. Jennifer Affleck's videos and resulting brand deals even fund her husband's medical school expenses. No one carries a Birkin bag (that I've noticed), yet it's all very reminiscent of the other former Jennifer Affleck's most exaggerated high-low outfits. Spending big on easy-to-ID designer logos is the fastest way to tell the world you're getting checks. For women whose professional influencing is scrutinized by their community—and sometimes, their own spouses—that matters. They can't buy acceptance, but they can buy a great bag.

a group of women from secret lives of mormon wives at a birthday party

For Mikayla's roller rink birthday party, MomTok paired their faux-leather pants and sparkly mini skirts with their usual cascading waves.

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the cast of secret lives of mormon wives at their galentines party

The Moms attended Demi's annual Galentine's party in a mix of floral dresses, knitted sweaters, and in Whitney's case, feather-trimmed pajamas by Sleeper.

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We might sit on our couches and judge what these women do and what they wear to do it, but there's plenty of evidence that Mormon wives with secret lives aren't the only ones mixing Shein and Saint Laurent. High-low styling is universal in this economy; we're just seeing a heightened version onscreen. In the US, fast fashion is one of the fastest-growing retail segments; while the luxury market sales have cooled down in the last few quarters, it's also a big earner.

Scrolling Reddit's r/MormonWivesHulu pages, I caught some users roasting Whitney's "pilgrim chic" dresses and questioning whether #MomTok product placements were really enough to afford a Goyard tote. And then I saw someone surveying the thread—just not for a Goyard price check. Instead they came here to innocently ask, "Does anyone know where Demi's temple bag is from?"

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Halie LeSavage
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