Whoever may have told you that nonfiction is boring was either a) reading the wrong books or b) just plain wrong. We're here to set the record straight with these captivating true stories about and by women that will remind you that the memoir genre is both addictive to read and extremely vital. They'll also remind you that women are undeniably resilient.
These stories are motivating, funny, powerful, sad, and evocative. From famous female role models like Michelle Obama and Sally Field—more of which you can find in our roundup of the best celebrity memoirs out there—to the women you never realized you needed to know, like Lisa Brennan-Jobs, here are the memoirs to add to your reading list, bedside table, and tote bag immediately.
1. 'From the Corner of the Oval' by Beck Dorey-Stein
Why You Should Read It: Everyone knows a likable plot depends on perspective. Who's telling the story? Well, how about this point of view: A 20-something stenographer for the Obama White House details her personal life and career at 30,000 feet in the air, aboard Air Force One. If that sounds interesting, you'll want to check out Beck Dorey-Stein's From the Corner of the Oval, detailing her spur-of-the-moment decision to quit her five part-time jobs, buy a microphone, and become Barack Obama's shadow.
2. 'Small Fry' by Lisa Brennan-Jobs
Why You Should Read It: Black turtleneck and glasses. You could describe Steve Jobs by just those four words, and everyone would know who you were talking about. But for Lisa Brennan-Jobs, her father was never that simple. Small Fry details the complicated relationship between the tech mogul and his eldest daughter, and how Silicon Valley shaped her life.
3. 'The Girl Who Smiled Beads' by Clemantine Wamariya
Why You Should Read It: Clemantine Wamariya is a survivor. Following the Rwandan genocide, she and her sister spent six years as refugees migrating through seven different African countries, never knowing if their parents in Rwanda were even alive.
Eventually, she and her sister were granted refuge in the United States, where Clemantine stumbled into a life of privilege. Taken in by a family, she attended private school and eventually Yale University. Even so, she struggled to rationalize the life she'd been given with the life she'd run away from. This is the story of that struggle.
4. 'Becoming' by Michelle Obama
Why You Should Read It: True tales from the White House never get old—especially when they're told by someone as remarkable as Michelle Obama. Her memoir, Becoming, is a candid reflection of her journey to the White House, from a little girl on the South Side of Chicago to an accomplished lawyer, mother, and First Lady.
5. 'Educated' by Tara Westover
Why You Should Read It: You know those fundamental childhood classroom experiences: raising baby chicks, being named line leader, scooting over to your best friend's desk when the teacher tells you to "find a partner" for a project? Yeah, Tara Westover never had those. She was raised a survivalist, spending most of her childhood preparing for the end of the world. But at 17, when she first stepped into a classroom at Brigham Young University, everything changed. Her testament to that time is moving and beautiful.
6. 'Tomorrow Will Be Different' by Sarah McBride
Why You Should Read It: Government policies can seem so abstract, especially if you don't think they affect you personally. Tomorrow Will be Different gives readers the dose of empathy they need to understand them. Sarah McBride was first transgender person to speak at a national convention in 2016. Through heartbreaking personal stories, McBride sheds light on the constant struggle for LGBTQ+ rights and inclusion. Bonus: Her foreword was written by Joe Biden.
7. 'Unbowed' by Wangari Maathai
Why You Should Read It: A photo of Wangari Maathai should be next to the definition of "persistence" in dictionaries around the world. Here, the Nobel Prize winner, who passed away in 2011, recounts her life's story: Raised in rural Kenya, Maathai developed the transformative Green Belt Movement in 1977, empowering women and combating food instability in the country. Despite being jailed, beaten, and bruised, Maathai remained unbowed—making it a fitting title for her memoir.
8. 'Wholly Unraveled' by Keele Burgin
Why You Should Read It: Kathleen (the author's birth name) lived a life of fear: of her father, of her religion, even of how she dressed. Wholly Unraveled is her memoir detailing one Catholic cult escapee's journey to a life of normalcy, self-worth, and belonging.
9. 'Monsoon Mansion' by Cinelle Barnes
Why You Should Read It: Natural disasters can do serious damage, but so can disasters caused by human error. Cinelle Barnes has experience with both. Her memoir, Monsoon Mansion, takes place in the Philippines and details her lavish lifestyle in the Mansion Royale. But when a monsoon hits, her beloved home deteriorates, her wealthy father bails, and she's left to be raised by an abusive stepfather and a mother in denial. Somehow, Cinelle survives.
10. 'In Pieces' by Sally Field
Why You Should Read It: She's the actress that brought you Gidget and Not Without My Daughter, but Sally Field's memoir really bares it all. She discusses her personal struggle with self-esteem, the controlling relationship she had with Burt Reynolds, and even her own childhood experience of sexual assault. The memoir, which was seven years in the making, is an honest, occasionally chilling look at the life of one of Hollywood's most timeless actors.
11. 'Never Enough' by Judith Grisel
Why You Should Read It: This is not your mother's autobiography. Author and neuroscientist Judith Grisel takes a no-holds-barred approach to the topic of addiction, tackling the subject through a mix of science, her own experiences, and a little bit of humor. Grisel is determined to help readers better understand the way addicts think and, in turn, to hopefully find a solution to the epidemic of drug abuse.
12. 'The Last Black Unicorn' by Tiffany Haddish
Why You Should Read It: If the saying "laugh to keep from crying" is true, then it's no wonder that Tiffany Haddish became a comedian. Her biography recounts plenty of opportunities for a reasonable person to break down in tears, from Haddish's experience in foster care to her encounter with sexual abuse. But instead, the comedian finds a reason to smile and to make others laugh with her. It's a painful story, but told with pure hilarity. Haddish truly is a unicorn.
13. 'All the Lives We Ever Lived' by Katharine Smyth
Why You Should Read It: Calling all English majors: This is the memoir for you. Katharine Smyth manages to entangle her personal experience of grief with—wait for it—Virginia Woolf's To the Lighthouse. Smyth's memoir is an ode to both her father and her favorite writer, whose words brought her comfort and clarity in a time of loss.
14. 'Under Red Skies' by Karoline Kan
Why You Should Read It: Former New York Times reporter Karoline Kan tells the story of three generations of women in Beijing, all willing and ready to defy the odds. Kan's grandmother survived the Great Famine, and her mother knowingly ignored the One-Child Policy when she gave birth to Karoline. Now, it's up to Kan herself to reach for the dreams society told her she could never achieve.
15. 'The Mother of Black Hollywood' by Jenifer Lewis
Why You Should Read It: No matter what role she plays, Jenifer Lewis exudes confidence. You don't go from Kinloch, Missouri, to Hollywood without that. But her telling memoir, The Mother of Black Hollywood, reveals how life for the Black-ish actress is more complicated than it looks. She opens up about her battle with bipolar disorder and her recovery from sexual addiction—proving that even some of the greatest divas have to overcome a lot.
16. 'Inheritance' by Dani Shapiro
Why You Should Read It: Inheritance tells the story of Dani Shapiro, who, upon taking a genealogy test, discovers that the man she's called Dad for the past 50 years isn't her biological father. And the family secrets just keep on coming from there. Shapiro's novel is a poignant examination of identity and what happens when one's wholeness and understanding of who they are is completely uprooted.
17. 'Whiskey Tender' by Deborah Jackson Taffa
Why You Should Read It: Taffa was born on the California Yuma reservation and grew up in Navajo territory in New Mexico, where she was encouraged to assimilate into American culture outside of the reservation. In this gripping memoir, she revisits not only her own upbringing, but also the long history of the mistreatment of Native populations at the hands of the American government and its promise of so-called assimilation.
18. 'An Honest Woman' by Charlotte Shane
Why You Should Read It: After years spent in sex work, Shane is something of an expert on intimacy, desire, and the general ins and outs of heterosexual relationships. Her deep dive into her own history in that area is cast through a feminist lens, with a thorough exploration of the pervasive misogyny that looms over many women’s pursuit of intimacy with men.
19. 'Know My Name' by Chanel Miller
Why You Should Read It: Miller originally was known only by the pseudonym Emily Doe in her infamous 2016 sexual assault case against Brock Turner, after which her incredibly powerful victim impact statement was released and quickly went viral. In 2019, however, Miller chose to reveal her identity, releasing this memoir about her courageous journey to build a life separate from that traumatic experience.
20. 'Everything I Know About Love' by Dolly Alderton
Why You Should Read It: Platonic friendships are rarely given the recognition and weight they deserve, often falling after romantic and familial relationships in society’s ranking of life’s most important ties. Alderton sets that straight in this memoir of her life up to age 30, meticulously and lovingly documenting the female friendships that have made up the most important relationships of her life so far.
21. 'Maid' by Stephanie Land
Why You Should Read It: Both a moving personal story of resilience and a broader exploration of the often untold story of what it means to be poor in America, Maid follows Land, a single mother, as she went from cleaning houses and moving in and out of homeless shelters and other temporary housing to, eventually, earning her college degree and finding stable work as a journalist. As a bonus, her important story has since been brought to life on screen, in a critically acclaimed Netflix series starring Margaret Qualley.
22. 'First in the Family' by Jessica Hoppe
Why You Should Read It: The title of Hoppe’s 2024 memoir refers to her status as the first in many generations to break the cycle of addiction and get sober. While looking back over that difficult journey, she also dives into the generational quality of addiction and the ways in which addiction specifically impacts communities of color like her own.
23. 'The Yellow House' by Sarah M. Broom
Why You Should Read It: Broom won a National Book Award for this 2019 memoir, an ode to the concept of home, which details her family’s long history in pre- and post-Katrina New Orleans and the issues of class, race, and inequality that have long shaped the city.
24. 'Minor Feelings' by Cathy Park Hong
Why You Should Read It: Hong defines “minor feelings” as those that crop up when you’re faced with lies about your own racial identity and lived reality. That dissonance is at the core of her 2020 book of essays, which document her own upbringing as the daughter of Korean immigrants and her musings on the current state of race in America.
25. 'Lovely One' by Ketanji Brown Jackson
Why You Should Read It: Jackson made history in 2022 as the first Black woman ever to serve on the U.S. Supreme Court. This 2024 memoir is the incredible story of how she got there, from growing up in the South as the daughter of educators to breaking barriers as a Black woman and mother in the high-powered field of law.
26. 'The Year of Magical Thinking' by Joan Didion
Why You Should Read It: In the final days of 2003, Joan Didion lost her husband, John Gregory Dunne, to a sudden heart attack. His death came in the wake of their only daughter’s own serious health issues, which returned with a vengeance just a few months after Dunne’s death. This book is Didion’s description of the nearly unbearable work of simultaneously grieving her lifelong partner and caring for her daughter—whose own death in 2005 was later the subject of another incredibly moving book from Didion, 2011’s Blue Nights.
27. 'Liliana's Invincible Summer' by Cristina Rivera Garza
Why You Should Read It: Nearly 30 years after her older sister was killed by an abusive ex-boyfriend in 1990, Garza traveled to Mexico to unravel the case. She documented that months-long journey in this Pulitzer Prize-winning book, piecing together the evidence to paint a loving, long-unseen picture of her sister.
28. 'Between Two Kingdoms' by Suleika Jaouad
Why You Should Read It: So often, stories of surviving cancer end with the doctor’s pronouncement of remission, but that’s not where the story actually ends for the survivors themselves. Jaouad details the difficult process of rebuilding her life and finding her place in the world after spending years in hospital beds being treated for leukemia—a process that she began by traveling the country, meeting with fellow cancer survivors, grieving relatives, and others grappling with the chasm between sickness and health.
29. 'Uncultured' by Daniella Mestyanek Young
Why You Should Read It: Young grew up in the Children of God cult, in which physical, emotional, and sexual abuse were the norm. She escaped as a teenager, excelled in college, and proceeded to join the military—only to find, as she describes here, that the patriarchal confines that defined her upbringing aren’t unique only to outright cults.
30. 'Easy Beauty' by Chloé Cooper Jones
Why You Should Read It: Jones, who has the rare congenital condition sacral agenesis, spent much of her life learning to deal with ableist remarks, attitudes, and policies by retreating into herself and her work. But after having a child and becoming a mother, she found herself emboldened to reclaim the spaces she’d never felt permitted to enter, setting up a whirlwind journey that she mapped out in this powerful 2022 memoir.
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