Jessica Chastain Recalls Taylor Swift Sending Her a Personalized Breakup Playlist the Morning After They First Met
\201cI just went through a breakup, and I was talking to her about that,\201d Chastain said of their first meeting at the 2011 Met Gala.


It’s still the Week of Taylor Swift, for those who celebrate—she turned 34 on December 13. (Although, let’s be honest: what week isn’t the Week of Taylor Swift these days?) And to continually celebrate, yet another celebrity is speaking out about the kindness of Swift, who seemingly knows and has befriended what feels like every single boldfaced name in the entire world.
Today’s anecdote comes from actress Jessica Chastain, who shares a heartwarming story about the singer-songwriter that helps illuminate why she is TIME’s Person of the Year. Speaking on The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon last night, Chastain recalled when Swift made her a personalized breakup playlist 12 years ago.
Chastain and Swift met at the Met Gala in 2011, and “It was, like, the first year I was invited to the Met Ball, the first year I had movies out, and we were both sitting next to each other,” Chastain told Fallon, per The Hollywood Reporter. “We were, like, next to Ryan Murphy, who was just starting to become successful with all his TV shows. And she was so sweet. I just went through a breakup, and I was talking to her about that. And, you know, we went and danced together. It was such a fun night.”
But then, the next morning. Chastain woke up to a special email in her inbox from Swift, which is one of the most thoughtful gestures we’ve heard lately. “The next day, I had an email from iTunes that said, like, Taylor Swift, whatever, and I just thought it was a Taylor Swift album,” Chastain said. “She had made me a breakup playlist that she sent me. Isn’t that the sweetest thing? … And here I thought it was, like, a Taylor Swift advertisement. And I was, like, wait a minute. She curated all these breakup songs to send me to help me get through my breakup.”
The two recently reunited when Chastain attended one of Swift’s Eras Tour stops in Mexico City this past August. Chastain posted a carousel of photos from the night on Instagram alongside the caption “Spamming u w really good @taylorswift Eras Tour content.”
“I was in Mexico City and she was touring there, and I was like, ‘Oh, I’m going to Taylor’s concert,’” Chastain said, per People.
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