Queen Camilla's Son Says He's Never Been to a Royal Christmas "For Various Reasons"

Tom Parker Bowles said he's not "running around palaces,” despite The King being his stepfather.

Tom Parker Bowles wearing a blue suit standing next to his mother Queen Camilla who is smiling and wearing a white polkadot dress
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Being Queen Camilla's son obviously comes with certain privileges, but apparently, attending a royal Christmas celebration isn't one of them. Tom Parker Bowles opened up to People about his life as The King's stepson, and during the interview, he admitted he'd never been to the traditional Christmas gathering on the Sandringham estate.

“We are married in, we are not the Royal Ramily," he said of himself and his sister, Laura Lopes, adding, "I’ve never for one second said that."

Although Parker Bowles, 49—who recently released a royal cookbook titled Cooking And The Crownsaid that while he found the Royal Family "incredibly nice and friendly" he leads a very different life. The father of two said he and kids Lola, 17, and Freddy, 14, whom he shares with ex-wife Sara Buys, are not "running around palaces."

"I haven’t been to Christmas yet for various reasons," he shared.

Tom Parker Bowles, Queen Camilla and King Charles

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As for the "various reasons," it's been suggested that Prince William isn't the biggest fan of Parker Bowles, with a source telling The Daily Beast in July that “it is best to avoid mentioning Tom around William.” The insider went on to say that the Prince of Wales was hesitant about his stepbrother's "rather louche lifestyle as a Mayfair bon vivant."

However, in a recent British Vogue interview, the cookbook author said when it comes to William and Kate, "I absolutely adore both of them," so perhaps he's stayed away from royal Christmas gatherings for other reasons.

When speaking about the rest of the royals, the food critic told People that "the York girls" Princess Eugenie and Princess Beatrice were "two of the nicest women you’d hope to meet.”

Prince Harry, Prince William, Prince Philip, Queen Elizabeth, King Charles, Queen Camilla, Tom Parker Bowles, Laura Lopes and Queen Camilla's father posing for a formal wedding photo after Charles and Camilla's wedding

Parker Bowles and his sister, Laura Lopes, posed with their grandfather and the Royal Family after Charles and Camilla's 2005 wedding.

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"We live in 2024 and blended families...If they’re happy then we’re happy and that’s where it all starts from,” he told People of his mother and stepfather.

Parker Bowles—who recently admitted that being Queen Camilla's son in the '90s was "incredibly dangerous" at times— shared that he, like many other families with divorced parents, holds a later Christmas celebration with his dad.

“My mother and father are still great friends and we will go down on December 27 and my mother will sometimes come,” he told People of his parents, who split in the '90s.

“It is something to work towards," Parker Bowles, who is divorced himself, added. "It’s a maturity that is a great thing if— despite a marriage sometimes not working—you can keep it together for the sake of the children and the sake of each other then it’s a very good thing."

Kristin Contino
Senior Royal and Celebrity Editor

Kristin Contino is Marie Claire's Senior Royal and Celebrity editor. She's been covering royalty since 2018—including major moments such as the Platinum Jubilee, Queen Elizabeth II’s death and King Charles III's coronation—and places a particular focus on the British Royal Family's style and what it means.

Prior to working at Marie Claire, she wrote about celebrity and royal fashion at Page Six Style and covered royalty from around the world as chief reporter at Royal Central. Kristin has provided expert commentary for outlets including the BBC, Sky News, US Weekly, the Today Show and many others.

Kristin is also the published author of two novels, “The Legacy of Us” and “A House Full of Windsor.” She's passionate about travel, history, horses, and learning everything she can about her favorite city in the world, London.