How Princess Kate and Duchess Sophie's Sisterly Relationship Is "One of the Most Important Partnerships" for the Royals

The royal duo has formed "an unbreakable bond" over the years.

Kate Middleton wearing a black hat and coat turning to the right and smiling at Duchess Sophie, also wearing a black hat and coat with a red poppy brooch
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Few situations could be more daunting than becoming an in-law to the British Royal Family, but there's one person who always has Princess Kate's back. Prince William's aunt Sophie, the Duchess of Edinburgh, shares a lot in common with the Princess of Wales, and their "unbreakable bond" has been explored in a new YouTube show.

In the latest episode of Daily Mail columnist Richard Eden's Reading the Royals series on YouTube, the journalist called the friendship between Kate and Sophie "one of the most important partnerships in the Royal Family."

While examining photos of the two women through the years, Eden explained how Sophie—who is married to Prince Edward—"had been the nervous new girl before" and helped ease Kate's nerves.

In one photo from Trooping the Colour in 2011, the writer analyzed how Sophie stood close to Kate on the balcony of Buckingham Palace, serving as "the bridge to her and the rest" of the family.

Members of the Royal Family including Princess Kate, Prince William, Duchess Sophie, Prince Edward, Queen Elizabeth, Prince Philip, Prince Harry and Queen Camilla on the Buckingham Palace balcony during Trooping the Colour 2011

Although she was placed off to the side of the balcony, Duchess Sophie made sure to make Kate feel included and welcome during her first Trooping the Colour in 2011.

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Princess kate standing behind a clear barrier wearing a red hat and dress cheering and clapping while smiling at Duchess Sophie, who is wearing a pink hat and matching dress

Princess Kate and Duchess Sophie enjoyed some time together at Royal Ascot 2023.

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Of course, Kate hailed from "a middle class background" instead of a royal-adjacent one, and as Eden noted, she was teased by William's friends for her mother having worked as a flight attendant.

"This experience was something that Sophie knew only too well," Eden said in the episode, sharing that the duchess "was the daughter of a tire salesman."

"Her lineage was far less noble than other incomers such as Lady Diana Spencer or Sarah Ferguson," he noted, adding, "If young Catherine was looking for someone who 'got it,' so to speak, she had found that person in Sophie."

Despite her commoner background, the Duchess of Edinburgh went on to become extremely close with her mother-in-law, Queen Elizabeth, and Eden shared that it was the late Queen herself who asked Sophie to help Kate feel welcome.

Duchess Sophie, Princess Charlotte, Kate Middleton, Prince Louis and Prince William wearing coronation robes standing on the balcony of Buckingham Palace

The Wales family, seen on the Buckingham Palace balcony after King Charles's 2023 coronation, is said to be extremely close with the Edinburghs.

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The back of Princess Kate and Duchess Sophie turned away from the camera, both wearing black dresses and hats, with Sophie putting her hand on Kate's back

Prince William's aunt put a reassuring hand on Kate's back during one of her first public appearances after completing chemotherapy.

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The Daily Mail columnist called the move "a deliberate plan by The Queen to ease Catherine into the firm," adding that Queen Elizabeth "saw great things in Sophie, both in character but also experience."

"Her Majesty thought Sophie would be the perfect person to pass some of her knowledge on to the future queen," he continued.

Clearly, Queen Elizabeth's plan worked, with Kate and Sophie enjoying a strong friendship today. After the Princess of Wales returned to a few public duties in fall 2024 following her battle with cancer, it was Sophie who placed a comforting hand on her back on Remembrance Sunday.

Kate's kids are also close with the duchess, with Princess Charlotte sharing an especially sweet relationship with her great aunt Sophie. The two have even been spotted on shopping dates in London with Sophie's 21-year-old daughter, Lady Louise.

Kristin Contino
Senior Royal and Celebrity Editor

Kristin Contino is Marie Claire's Senior Royal and Celebrity editor. She's been covering royalty since 2018—including major moments such as the Platinum Jubilee, Queen Elizabeth II’s death and King Charles III's coronation—and places a particular focus on the British Royal Family's style and what it means.

Prior to working at Marie Claire, she wrote about celebrity and royal fashion at Page Six Style and covered royalty from around the world as chief reporter at Royal Central. Kristin has provided expert commentary for outlets including the BBC, Sky News, US Weekly, the Today Show and many others.

Kristin is also the published author of two novels, “The Legacy of Us” and “A House Full of Windsor.” She's passionate about travel, history, horses, and learning everything she can about her favorite city in the world, London.