Prince William and Princess Kate Have Been Living in a "Nightmare" For Last 5 Years, Per Royal Expert

"That either crushes a marriage, or it brings them together."

Kate Middleton wearing a red coat and hat looking serious walking next to Prince William wearing a blue suit on Commonwealth Day 2025
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Being diagnosed with cancer—or watching a family member go through it—is one of the most difficult things imaginable. For Prince William and Princess Kate, they've not only been tested with multiple family health battles, but they've faced an unrelenting series of other personal and public challenges over the past five years. Despite everything the Prince and Princess of Wales has been through, they've come out on top—with one royal expert noting how their marriage has become stronger than ever.

When it comes to their marriage, royal historian Amanda Foreman told People that the couple shows "a sense of protectiveness and partnership." She added, "The last five years have been a nightmare for them in every possible way—the past year even more so. That either crushes a marriage, or it brings them together."

The "nightmare" began in 2020 with the COVID-19 pandemic and Prince Harry and Meghan Markle's departure from the U.K. As former royal aide Jason Knauf recently said in a 60 Minutes Australia interview, the rift between William and his brother has been "hard and sad" for everyone involved. "It's very difficult to have this stuff play out in the public eye," he added.

Kate Middleton wearing a red coat and Prince William walking next to her in a blazer and blue pants in Wales smiling and looking to the side

The couple showed their connection during a recent visit to Wales.

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Prince William, Prince Louis and Prince George wearing navy suits next to Princess kate in a green coat and Princess Charlotte in a plaid coat on Christmas day 2024

The Wales family showed a united front in navy and green looks on Christmas Day 2024.

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Adding on the death of Prince William's grandfather, Prince Philip, in 2021, followed by another momentous loss just a year later when Queen Elizabeth died, would test any couple's resolve. But the late Queen's death was especially significant because it marked an enormous shift in William and Kate's duties. And just as they were finding their footing as the new Prince and Princess of Wales, The King was diagnosed with cancer in January 2024 following a procedure for an enlarged prostate.

With an elderly King fighting cancer, Prince William and his wife were forced to prepare for their own future roles on the throne much sooner than they had likely anticipated—and then a month later, the Princess of Wales announced her own cancer diagnosis. It's a "dreadful" time period the Prince of Wales told reporters was "the hardest year in my life."

In September 2024, the princess announced she had completed chemotherapy, returning to periodic duties like Remembrance Sunday and her annual Christmas carol concert. In January 2025, Princess Kate revealed that she was officially in remission.

Foreman noted that the events of the past five years have only made the couple closer, and during a time of dramatic world events, a united Prince and Princess of Wales is what the U.K. needs. The historian added, "The international stage is so unstable, it is rather extraordinary to see how both have risen to the occasion."

Kristin Contino
Senior Royal and Celebrity Editor

Kristin Contino is Marie Claire's Senior Royal and Celebrity editor. She's been covering royalty since 2018—including major moments such as the Platinum Jubilee, Queen Elizabeth II’s death and King Charles III's coronation—and places a particular focus on the British Royal Family's style and what it means.

Prior to working at Marie Claire, she wrote about celebrity and royal fashion at Page Six Style and covered royalty from around the world as chief reporter at Royal Central. Kristin has provided expert commentary for outlets including the BBC, Sky News, US Weekly, the Today Show and many others.

Kristin is also the published author of two novels, “The Legacy of Us” and “A House Full of Windsor.” She's passionate about travel, history, horses, and learning everything she can about her favorite city in the world, London.