King Charles Has Just Given This Royal Girlfriend a Sign of "Complete Acceptance" Into the Family Fold

Is a royal engagement on the way?

King Charles laughing talking to Harriet Sperling and Peter Phillips
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After divorcing his wife Autumn Phillips in 2021, Princess Anne's son, Peter Phillips, became the Royal Family's most eligible bachelor. The 47-year-old businessman has been dating nurse Harriet Sperling since early 2024, and after a very significant move at Royal Ascot last week, it seems King Charles has fully welcomed his nephew's new love into the family.

According to The King's former butler Grant Harrold, allowing Sperling to ride in a carriage during the royal procession at Ascot is a sure sign that Phillips is extremely serious with his girlfriend. Speaking on behalf of Genting Casino, Harrold said the NHS nurse's carriage appearance signals "complete acceptance, 100 percent" by The King and "shows she is an official girlfriend."

"As soon you start seeing them at high-profile events like this, and Royal Ascot is a highlight of the royal calendar, it’s clear they have been approved and they are very much in the royal fold," the butler said. While Sperling attended Royal Ascot with Phillips for the first time last summer, she did not ride in a carriage.

Harriet Sperling riding in a carriage with Peter Phillips at Royal Ascot wearing a floral hat

Sperling rode in a carriage with Peter Phillips on day one of Royal Ascot.

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Harriet Sperling wearing a yellow dress curtesying next to Peter Phillips

She curtsied to The King and Queen during her second Ascot appearance on June 19.

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Harriet Sperling kissing King Charles at Royal Ascot, with Queen Camilla and Peter Phillips watching on

The King greeted Sperling warmly at the event.

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Explaining when the decision would have been made for Sperling to join the Royal Family in the procession, Harrold said, Phillips "would have discussed with his mother, Princess Anne, and then she would have either discussed it with her brother [The King] or she would have told Peter to discuss it."

He added that King Charles "may have just gone up and invited her, or Peter would have somehow approached the subject with him, but it'd be very informal, it wouldn't be like an official meeting where he goes to the palace, especially to get permission."

Sperling joined the Royal Family on two days of Royal Ascot this year, wearing a cream Suzannah London jacket and skirt with a floral-trimmed hat on June 17 and a sunny yellow Beulah dress and matching veiled hat two days later.

The couple's first public appearance was last May at the Badminton Horse Trials—where they were seen with Phillips's daughters Savannah, 14, and Isla, 13—and they've since attended several other high-profile events including Wimbledon.

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Kristin Contino
Senior Royal and Celebrity Editor

Kristin Contino is Marie Claire's Senior Royal and Celebrity editor. She's been covering royalty since 2018—including major moments such as the Platinum Jubilee, Queen Elizabeth II’s death and King Charles III's coronation—and places a particular focus on the British Royal Family's style and what it means.

Prior to working at Marie Claire, she wrote about celebrity and royal fashion at Page Six Style and covered royalty from around the world as chief reporter at Royal Central. Kristin has provided expert commentary for outlets including the BBC, Sky News, US Weekly, the Today Show and many others.

Kristin is also the published author of two novels, “The Legacy of Us” and “A House Full of Windsor.” She's passionate about travel, history, horses, and learning everything she can about her favorite city in the world, London.