How Princess Kate Has Changed "Stuffy" Royal Tradition Amid Her Absence From Public Life

"This is such an effective and modern way of using her influence," one royal commentator said.

Kate Middleton smiling and wearing a brown coat with gold leaf earrings
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Kate Middleton has largely stayed out of the public spotlight since announcing she'd been diagnosed with cancer in March, making only three official appearances this year (and one private meeting with a teenage cancer patient). But even though she's been staying behind the scenes, the royal has taken a refreshingly personal approach to staying connected with the public during her cancer treatment.

From her emotional cancer update posts to sharing her thoughts about Baby Loss Awareness Week, the Princess of Wales has shown the public a closer look at her life on social media in recent months. She signs her personal posts with a "C," just like husband Prince William denotes his with a "W."

Former BBC royal correspondent Jennie Bond sees this as a positive shift, telling OK! (via the Sun), "This is such an effective and modern way of using her influence and staying in touch, even when she is not making personal appearances."

Bond compared the princess's social media tactics to the traditional forms of communication from Buckingham Palace, which she noted “now seem quite stuffy and extremely formal by comparison."

Prince Louis, Prince William, Kate Middleton, Princess charlotte and Prince George hugging outside

The Princess of Wales embraced her family in the royal's touching September 2024 cancer update video.

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Princess Kate took this personal approach even further in September 2024, when she released an intimate and candid video showing herself interacting with Prince William and their children Prince George, Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis.

The clip—which the princess used to announce she'd completed chemotherapy—offered fans a rare glimpse into her private journey, humanizing the royal in a way that traditional announcements simply can't match.

While the appearance wasn't officially announced, in October, the Prince and Princess of Wales shared photographs from their meeting with 16-year-old photography buff Liz Hatton, who is battling terminal cancer. After the couple shared the pictures, the teenager told BBC Radio 4 how "talking to them was amazing because it was just like talking to anyone, like just a normal person."

As Bond pointed out, "Social media can be a source of awful abuse, but Catherine and William are showing that it can be used to spread goodwill and kindness."

Prince William often shares his own posts as well, like on Oct. 22, when he shared a celebratory X post about his beloved Aston Villa's recent win.

By writing their own social media posts and sharing vulnerable moments, the Prince and Princess of Wales have shown a thoughtful balance between tradition and modern communication—and we have a feeling the future King and Queen will be sharing plenty more posts in the future.

Kristin Contino
Senior Royal and Celebrity Editor

Kristin Contino is Marie Claire's Senior Royal and Celebrity editor. She's been covering royalty since 2018—including major moments such as the Platinum Jubilee, Queen Elizabeth II’s death and King Charles III's coronation—and places a particular focus on the British Royal Family's style and what it means.

Prior to working at Marie Claire, she wrote about celebrity and royal fashion at Page Six Style and covered royalty from around the world as chief reporter at Royal Central. Kristin has provided expert commentary for outlets including the BBC, Sky News, US Weekly, the Today Show and many others.

Kristin is also the published author of two novels, “The Legacy of Us” and “A House Full of Windsor.” She's passionate about travel, history, horses, and learning everything she can about her favorite city in the world, London.