Angelina Jolie Says Motherhood Keeps Her From Feeling Lonely

"My work is not everything. Being a parent is everything."

Vivienne Jolie and Angelina Jolie attend the The 77th Annual Tony Awards at David H. Koch Theater at Lincoln Center on June 16, 2024 in New York City.
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Angelina Jolie is opening up about how pivotal a role motherhood plays in her life.

In a recent interview with The Sunday Times, published on Sunday, Dec. 1, the actress said that being a parent helps to keep feelings of loneliness at bay.

“I don’t feel that [loneliness] because I have family,” Jolie told the publication, referring to her role in the new biopic Maria, in which she plays world-renowned opera singer Maria Callas who died at the age of 53.

“Maria didn’t have a family, so her work was everything. My work is not everything," she continued. "Being a parent is everything.”

The famed actress went on to tell the publication that in preparing for the role—which included opera singing lessons—she came to realize that she was also working through her own personal emotions.

“It was the therapy I didn’t realize I needed,” she explained. “Singing opera requires you to be as emotionally open as you possibly can be—it’s not like singing in the car. It’s cathartic. I’ve never pushed myself or opened myself up in that way, that was daunting.”

Angelina Jolie and Knox Jolie-Pitt arrives at the 2024 Governors Awards at Dolby Theatre on November 17, 2024 in Hollywood, California.

Angelina Jolie poses with her son Knox Jolie-Pitt while attending the 2024 Governors Awards.

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Her recent interview is not the first time Jolie has compared her biopic role—and Maria the real-life person—to her own life.

"I’ve been a parent for 23 years. The most beautiful thing about being a parent is that you are not the center of your life," Jolie told the The Hollywood Reporter back in August, while promoting the film and discussing how special it was to have her two sons, Maddox and Pax, on set while filming.

"I have never had a set where my family is not allowed to be there because I’m focusing—I’m not that person. You can climb all over me or visit," she explained at the time. "It really meant a lot that my boys were with me on Maria. When I would have really heavy times, they would come over and just give me a hug or a cup of tea. That was probably one of the more intense things was that—usually when I’m expressing that much pain, it’s not in front of my children.

"You really try to hide from your children how much pain and sadness you carry," she added. "And so for them to be with you when you’re expressing it at such a level, I think it was the first time they ever heard me cry like that. That’s usually for the shower."

Shiloh Jolie-Pitt, Zahara Jolie-Pitt, Angelina Jolie, Vivienne Jolie-Pitt and Maddox Jolie-Pitt at the "Eternals" UK Premiere at the BFI IMAX Waterloo on October 27, 2021 in London, England.

Shiloh Jolie-Pitt, Zahara Jolie-Pitt, Angelina Jolie, Vivienne Jolie-Pitt and Maddox Jolie-Pitt at the 2021 premiere of 'Eternals.'

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That same month, Jolie opened up about what she believed she has most in common with the late opera singer.

"I related to the part of her that is extremely soft and didn’t have room in the world to be as soft as she truly was and as emotionally open as she truly was," Jolie said, as reported by People at the time. "I think I share her vulnerability more than anything."

Jolie shares six children—Maddox, 23 Pax, 20, Zahara, 19, Shiloh, 18, and twins Knox and Vivienne, 16—with her ex, Brad Pitt. The pair split in 2016 and have been engaged in a prolonged legal battle over their impending divorce ever since. (Pitt and Jolie were declared legally single back in 2019.)

In a 2023 interview with Vogue, Jolie credited her children for keeping her from entering a "darker" place.

"I think, recently, I would’ve gone under in a much darker way had I not wanted to live for them," she explained at the time. "They’re better than me because you want your children to be.”

Danielle Campoamor
Weekend Editor

Danielle Campoamor is Marie Claire's weekend editor covering all things news, celebrity, politics, culture, live events, and more. In addition, she is an award-winning freelance writer and former NBC journalist with over a decade of digital media experience covering mental health, reproductive justice, abortion access, maternal mortality, gun violence, climate change, politics, celebrity news, culture, online trends, wellness, gender-based violence and other feminist issues. You can find her work in The New York Times, Washington Post, TIME, New York Magazine, CNN, MSNBC, NBC, TODAY, Vogue, Vanity Fair, Harper's Bazaar, Marie Claire, InStyle, Playboy, Teen Vogue, Glamour, The Daily Beast, Mother Jones, Prism, Newsweek, Slate, HuffPost and more. She currently lives in Brooklyn, New York with her husband and their two feral sons. When she is not writing, editing or doom scrolling she enjoys reading, cooking, debating current events and politics, traveling to Seattle to see her dear friends and losing Pokémon battles against her ruthless offspring. You can find her on X, Instagram, Threads, Facebook and all the places.