Latest articles by Rich Santos
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4 Reasons Why Dating Is So Hard
Somehow I woke up at 9 a.m. this past Saturday to get Arcade Fire tickets for their upcoming Madison Square Garden show. Their album Funeral has always meant a lot to me as a commentary for growing up and loss of innocence. Their song "Wake
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The Signs He's Cheating
Here are some red flags that may signal that your significant other is cheating.
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Do Women Really Want Commitment?
I've got lots of friends who have given it a shot, tried to tell a woman that they're into her, only to scare her away.
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8 Types of Guys That Won't Commit
Trying to get men to commit is an age-old riddle in the female mind.
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8 Texting Mistakes Men Make
How his phone can make a once promising prospect into a dating nightmare.
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Why Are Couples So Unprepared For Marriage?
What changes in the transition from committed relationship to married life?
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10 First-Date Mistakes
The best thing about bad dates is that we walk away with a great story.
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Is Monogamy The Best Policy?
I recently came across an article asserting that monogamy is so difficult that many couples may be better off having open marriages, as long as they can agree upon the rules. Am I too mired down in traditional values, or is this idea ludicrous? Is se
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How To Keep A Guy's Attention
Our male dating blogger gives you some useful tips on how to keep a guy's attention
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Can A Love Triangle Be Healthy?
Can a love triangle ever be a healthy thing?
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Is Sexting A Gateway To Cheating?
Is sexting as harmful to a relationship as cheating?
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The Pros and Cons of Summer Dating
After a wonderful Memorial Day trip to the beach, I came up with this list of things I love and hate about summer and dating...
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7 Rules For Setting Up An Online Dating Profile
Recently, my friend asked me to help her build an online dating profile. An online profile is essentially a digital "resume," and like a resume you have to spend some time figuring the best way to highlight your attributes and set the tone
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Advice From Real Wise Sages: Married Women
I admit that my previous post, "Advice From Three Wise Sages: Married Guys" was a bit tongue in cheek. Advice from guys is usually wrong, and advice from married guys is worse. So in an effort to balance the scales, I've collected some adv
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6 Things That Changed Dating
Technology's Influnece on Dating - How Dating has Been Influenced though History
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Can You Control Falling in Love?
Despite our quest for love, we're scared of it and often try to control our feelings in an effort to minimize the chances of a broken heart.
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How To Avoid Giving Out Your Phone Number
The other night I was talking with friends about how awkward it is to meet people at bars.The ensuing date is usually awkward too. The women in the conversation were sharing their frustration with the whole "getting the number" process in t
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Advice From Wise Old Sages (Married Guys)
The advice I get from married guys scares me. It's like they are all living as a suppressed population in a far off land, explaining rules that are laid upon their broken spirits by some powerful entity. I guess this is why my married friends see me asRelationships a bastion of hope — a maverick of sorts. I'm like pre-labotomy Jack Nicholson's character in Cuckoo's Nest.
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The Fine Art of The Cock Block
It's hard enough to seal the deal without interference from outside forces. Men have invented a slang term in honor of these mood killing outside forces: the cock block. Cock blocking is opposite of the work that a good solid wing man does. A wing ...
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Why Your Boyfriend Can't Orgasm
I wonder if sex is bad for a woman if the guy doesn't orgasm. I'll be completely candid here: I don't orgasm often during oral sex or intercourse. What is the cause of this phenomenon? I'm not sure, but I have a few theories about my affliction...
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7 Bad Manners For A First Date
When I broke up with my last girlfriend I received a rather venomous email chastising me for all my personality flaws. Needless to say this was a mighty long email. One sentence I'll never forget had to do with her opinion about my manners.
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The Benefits of Having a Lot of Female Friends
Throughout my life, I've learned the importance and value of female advice and input. Whenever I make a move during the early stages of a relationship, my faithful, female "editors" are right there to help me out...and remind me of how clue
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Most Popular Times of The Year For Breaking Up
I recently came across a study in Men's Health that outlined the most common breakup points in the year. This info was gathered after monitoring Facebook profiles referencing breakups. It was interesting to see that breakups spiked during ce
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4 Things I'm Insecure About In Bed
I've said many times I wish I could be a ",,dude",, about sex and think ",,Wow, I'm nailing this chick.",, Unfortunately, I have more thoughts racing through my head and most of these thoughts have to do with what's going to go wrong. Here is a sampling of
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5 Reasons For Spring Fever
Spring has arrived, and according to a recent survey about weather and sex, 67% of respondents said they become more interested in sex when the weather starts getting warmer.
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Are Strip Clubs Really That Bad?
Which is more threatening: knowing your boyfriend is at a strip club or out with an ex-girlfriend?
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5 Habits That Will Keep You Single
Many people get into dating situations that are doomed from the start. I have a habit of doing it unconsciously, and some of my friends actually admit they do it on purpose: the better to not get hurt or get too close to anyone.
